Heather Kobylinski

Glen Ridge High School

200 Ridgewood Avenue

Glen Ridge, New Jersey, 07028

(973) 743-6945

Student Assistance

You can e-mail me at HKobylinski@glenridge.org

§       AbusingPrescriptionDrugs

§       Caring Kids

§       Student Assistance Website

§       Helping Hand Volume 15, Issue 7

§       Confidentiality

§       Student Assistance Program

§       Phone Numbers & Internet Addresses

§       Peer Leadership

§       Juvenile Conference Committee

§       Intervention and Referral Services

§       Section 504/ADA

§       Crisis Intervention Team

§       Mayors Council on Alcohol and Drug Abuse

 

Welcome to the web site of Heather Kobylinski, Student Assistance Counselor

Everything discussed in my office is kept strictly confidential. Students not only talk to me about drug and alcohol issues, but more often about many other issues. These issues may include academic concerns, problems with a teacher, parent or friend. Topics such as depression, self-esteem, pregnancy, self harm, anxiety, sexual activity and abuse are just to name a few.

Again, everything is kept confidential. Your parents are not called, your teachers will not find out and your friends will not know what we discuss. The only circumstances that force me to involve your parents are in cases of child abuse, suicide or homicide. These cases are extreme and very serious, however it would be a case in which you would require more help and guidance than I could safely provide.

I am available through out the day so, if you would like to meet, either stop by during a free class or schedule an appointment with me. If you have an emergency, please let me know and I will meet with you right away. If you let your teacher know where you are going they will understand.

 

Confidentiality


 

What is confidential?

It means that you can be sure I won’t tell other people about what you say.  Not your parents, the police, teachers or the principal, not your friends.

 

Some things that are confidential:

  • Alcohol, nicotine or other drug use
  • Your grades
  • Curfew violations
  • That you are pregnant
  • That you have a disease
  • That you suspect you are pregnant or have a disease
  • That you cut class or the whole day
  • That you sneak out at night
  • Your sexual behavior
  • Your sexual preference
  • Your likes, dislikes or opinions of other people

 

What is NOT confidential?

Only a few things are not confidential.  Mostly, they are things that can severely and immediately hurt you.  If you tell me these things, I will have to contact someone else.

 

Things that are NOT confidential:

  • If you are suicidal
  • If you are homicidal
  • If you are a victim of child abuse or neglect
  • If you are a victim of a sexual assault
  • If you engage in self harm (cutting)
  • If you have a medical emergency (such as bleeding or overdose) in my presence

 

Most things that you could say to me are confidential.  However, there are a few exceptions, and I am bound by law to report these for your own protection.

 

Federal Law 42 DFR II protects your confidentiality.

 

 

 

 

STUDENT ASSISTANCE PROGRAM

 

Program Philosophy

 

         The philosophy of the school district of Glen Ridge is one of caring and concern for students. In partnership with the home and the community, it is the core mission to provide students with the educational opportunities and academic experiences that enable them to maximize their potential through a college preparatory based curriculum. We seek to maintain an environment that fosters self-esteem and respect for individual differences. We also seek to develop a concern for and an understanding of issues affecting the world, while addressing the unique needs of each student in a changing society.

 

         The administration, faculty and staff recognize that there is a certain level of stress involved with the many issues and decisions today's adolescents’ face.

 

Program Components

 

School Board Policy: To define the school’s role in creating a safe, disciplined and drug free learning community and to clarify the relationship between student academic performance and the use of alcohol, other drugs, violence and high risk behavior

Staff Development: To provide all school employees with the necessary information and skills to help reduce risks, increase intervention skills and foster a relationship between SAP services and faculty

Program Awareness: To educate parents, students and the community about the school policy on alcohol, tobacco, other drugs, disruptive behavior and violence and provide information about Student Assistance services.

Internal Referral Process: To identify and refer students with academic and social concerns to a multi-disciplinary problem solving and case management team. This includes Intervention and Referral Services and 504/ADA. Through the I&RS process we evaluate how the school can best serve students with academic or social concerns through solution focused strategies

Education Student Support Groups: To provide information, support and problem solving skills to students who are experiencing academic or social problems. Some student issues are:   Alcohol/Drug counseling and referrals, Smoking cessation, Crisis counseling, Eating disorders, Suicidal ideation, Sexuality, Depression, Divorce, Bereavement/ Grief

Cooperation and Collaboration with community Agencies and Resources To build bridges between schools, parents and community resources through referral and shared case management.

Integration with other School Based Programs: To integrate student assistance services with other school-based programs designed to increase resilience, improve academic performance and reduce student risk for alcohol, tobacco other drugs and violence.

 

Program Description

 

      The Student Assistance Program has been established at Glen Ridge High School to identify and help students who may be experiencing personal, school or family problems. Its broad brush philosophy acknowledges that students who are displaying troubled behavior should be referred to the student assistance program, regardless of whether that trouble indicates any involvement or association with alcohol and other drug related concerns A key advantage of the broad brush approach is that it allows students to seek help from the SAC without fearing that they will be labeled as a drug or alcohol abuser. In effect, this allows the SAC to reach many more of the students who are at risk than a program that specifically targets substance abuse.

 

Services Offered

 

  • Counseling provided for a variety of personal problems such as; academic concerns, social or family issues, depression, self-esteem, pregnancy, self harm, anxiety, and abuse.
  • Resource for development of, and updating of, a comprehensive K-12 alcohol/drug curriculum.
  • District contact for; interventions, recommendations for referral, follow-up, and after care support for those students placed in out patient or in patient treatment programs.
  • Coordination of alcohol and other drug programs and assemblies.
  • The program is also available to screen, refer and assist students who may be affected by their own or someone else's use of alcohol or other drugs. These problems may be affecting the student's ability to perform at school. Upon referral, trained staff interviews the student. Recommendations are made to involve the student in an in-school educational group or a referral is made to a community resource. Receiving services from the program is completely confidential. Involvement in the program is usually voluntary.

 

Referral Process

 

·        Parental Referral Parents who are concerned about their child because of social or emotional issues that may be affecting their son or daughter are encouraged to contact the student assistance office.

·        Student Self Referral A student who is concerned about his/her own problems or those of someone else, may contact the SAC directly or through any staff member.

·        Staff Referral Teachers and other school staff have been alerted to signs and symptoms of possible indications of crisis and they are encouraged to seek assistance from the SAC.

 

Although everything discussed with the SAC is kept strictly confidential, there are cases in which this must be broken. They are indications of suicide, child abuse or homicide.

 

 The following is a list of web sites that may be of some use to you either to research for a school project or for personal information

 

Tobacco

www.notobacco.org  Tobacco cessation site

www.cdc.gov/tobacco   Center for Disease Control

www.cancer.org/frames.html  American Cancer Society

www.lungusa.org/index2.html  American Lung Assoc.

www.no-smoke.org   Smoking

www.tobaccofacts.org/    anti smoking

www.ash.org  Action on Smoking & Health

www.kickbut.org/  anti smoking

www.STAT.org  Stop Teenage Addiction to Tobacco

http://stic.neu.edu  State Tobacco Information Center; tobacco litigation

www.tobacco.org.History  anti smoking

www.tobacco.org/   anti smoking

www.ymn.org  Youth Media Network; Tobacco Tax Initiative

www.quit4life.com  Tobacco cessation site

www.questionit.com  Tobacco Industry; anti smoking

www.wholetruth.com  Students Working Against Tobacco

www.gate.net/~jcannon/tobacco.html#top Tobacco Industry Info

http://whyfiles.news.wisc.edu/024nicotine/index.html Nicotine facts

www.quitnet.org  Smoking cessation

 

www.tobaccofreekids.org   Anti smoking

Alcohol

 

www.12step-recovery.org  for families and friends of alcoholics

www.miph.org/binge.html  Minnesota Institute of Public Health; binge drinking

www.Alcoholabuse.com  Alcoholism

http://www.niaa.nih.gov   National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism

 

 

Drugs and Substance Abuse

http://www.drugabuse.com  Honest Drug Abuse Issues

http://www.Jointogether.orgSubstance Abuse & Guidance

www.acde.org    American Council for Drug Education

www.Health.org/react/facts.htm   Straight facts about Drugs and Alcohol

www.apa.org/journals/adb/adb144342  psychology of addiction

www.pen.K12.va.us/VDOE/Instruction/comp.html Inhalant abuse

www.focusas.com/alcohol.html   alcohol related issues

www.alcholism.about.com/cs/college   alcohol related issues

www.duila.org parent guide

www.parentingteens.about.com/cs/druguse  parenting guide

www.Nida.nih.gov   National Institute on Drug Abuse

www.Casacolumbia.org   National Center on Addiction & Substance Abuse at Columbia Univ

www.drug-abuse.com   provides web sites on all drug related info

www.freevibe.com/headsup/why_people.asp   Drug awareness site

www.well.com/user/woa/facts.htm   drug related research

http://www.niaa.nih.gov/ drug strategies

http://members.aol.com/Glskid/skills.html  Drug prevention skills center

www.pen.k12.va.us/VDOE/Instruction/comp         Inhalant Prevention Resource Guide

http://www.whitehousedrugpolicy.gov/ office of national drug policy control

 

Self Help/Referral Resources/Miscellaneous

 

www.1-0800-therapist.com  Therapy resource

www.shpm.com/articles/depress/violence.html   Self Help Magazine

http://nhhi.net/800nums.html  800#’s hotline

www.cybertowers.com/selfhelp/articles/depress/violence.html  self help magazine

www.apa.org   American Psychological Assoc.

www.zen.org/~brendan/kids-teen.html   web guide for teens

www.teencentral.net  Help line web site

http://gurlpages.com   Teen magazine

www.Drughelp.org  Private non-profit information and referral network  

 www.mentalhelp.net    online mental health directory guide

www.selfinjury.freeserve.co.uk/women.html   self harm, cutting

www.galynj.org   gay and lesbian issues

www.veronaonline.com/visage    gay and lesbian

www.kidspeace.org  National Center for Kids Overcoming Crisis

www.somethingfishy.org   eating disorders

www.vrg.org/index.htm    resource for vegetarianism

www.ncadv.org  domestic violence

http://www.baltimorepsych.com/Suicide.htm  suicide and the school

 

Education/General Information

 

www.Stateserv.hpts.org  State Legislative Info on Select Issues

www.mayo.edu/nde/index.htmlMayo Clinic; health related issues

www.aabainc.org eating disorders

www.anad.org eating disorders

www.globalink.org/globemo/International Union Against Cancer 

http://library.thinkquest.org/25078/homepage.html articles on nutrition, mental and physical fitness, diseases, and personal care

www.goaskalice.columbia.edu Colombia University’s health education program

www.iwannaknow.org sponsored by the American Social Health Organization

www.kidshealth.org/teen/index.html more than 75 doctors reviewing the health information presented

www.fda.gov Federal Drug Admin

 www.connectforkids.org guidance for adults

www.screenit.com  Entertainment reviews for parents

www.infact.org   Campaign for corporate Accountability; watch dog group

www.who.int/psa/toh.html World Health Org; ATOD

www.youngwomenshealth.org   teen resources

www.teencentral.net  teen resources

www.teengrowth.com teen resources

www.sxetc.org  teen resources

www.teenhealthfx.com  teen resources

www.coolnurse.com  teen resources

 

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If you have any questions about these sites or about any related issues you would like to discuss, my office is located on the second floor.  All conversations are confidential.  I can also be contacted by phone (973) 743-6945 or by e-mail: hkobylinski@glenridge.org.

 

 

 

Peer Leadership Advisor

 

Peer Leadership Program Description

Grade 12    5  Credits      Full Year

Text:  Peer Leadership:  A Human Relations Process to Reduce Substance Abuse and Improve School Climate  Thomas Turney 1994

 

This course will provide students with a thorough knowledge of group dynamics. Students are required to participate in a selection process as only seven boys and seven girls are accepted.  Students also will learn leadership and problem solving skills and will have first hand opportunities to utilize these skills when they lead weekly small group discussions with the entire eighth grade. The eighth grade will participate through their cycle classes alternating each week

 

The goals of this program include:

q       Helping students understand the variety of roles and responsibilities they encounter in various life situations

q       To help students understand their own values and how their values affect their relationships with other people

q       To help students think though problems and explore alternatives, thus improving problem- solving skills and increase self-confidence

q       To help students develop an awareness of the process which occurs with in the development of the group

q       To help students develop an acceptance and appreciation of differences among their peers

q       To help students learn how to facilitate the active participation of all members in a group

q       To help students learn how to encourage cohesion and cooperation in a group

q       To help students examine different leadership styles and learn how to evaluate their own progress as group leaders and,

q       To help students continue being positive role modes for their peers.

 

  • Prerequisite:  Participation in a selection process based on a written application, group interview and teacher recommendations.

This program addresses eighth graders and is led by two peer leaders, who are seniors meeting once per week.  What we hope Peer Leadership will accomplish for these students:

1.        Facilitate adjustment at GRHS

2.       Experience a positive role model with their peer leader

3.       Provide an atmosphere to help students feel comfortable when talking about uncomfortable subjects

4.       Provide a forum for expressing and listening to different opinions

5.       Provide enjoyment; meaning both fun as well as interesting and engaging

6.       Help bridge some of the gaps between middle and high school

7.       Help face pressures and problems and how to find possible solutions

8.       Encourage friendships and relationships

 

The Peer Leadership program is sponsored and funded by a grant from the Mayor’s Committee on Alcohol and Drug Abuse

 

Juvenile Conference Committee

Program Purpose: To help the juvenile and his or her family by discovering the reason the juvenile got in trouble and addressing the reason with any applicable resources.

Target Group: First time offenders who voluntarily participate in the program, and voluntarily comply with the recommendations of the committee.

For more information on the JCC, log on to www.kci.org

 

Intervention and Referral Services & 504 Coordinator

GLEN RIDGE PUBLIC SCHOOLS

Student Services

235 Ridgewood Avenue

Glen Ridge, New Jersey 07028

Phone (973) 429-8305 Fax (973) 743-7079 

Section 504/Americans with Disabilities Act (ADA)

General Information

The Rehabilitation Act of 1973, commonly referred to as "Section 504", is a non-discrimination statue enacted by the United States Congress. The purpose of the Act is to prohibit discrimination and to assure that disabled students have educational opportunities and benefits equal to those provided to non-disabled students.

An eligible student under Section 504/ADAis a student who a) has, b) has a record of having, or c) is regarded as having a physical or mental impairment which substantially limits a major life activity such as learning, self-care, walking, seeing, hearing, speaking, breathing, working, and performing manual tasks.

Section 504 differs from special education in that it is a civil rights (non-discrimination) law enforced by the Office of Civil Rights (OCR) in the U.S. Department of Education and applies to all students with disabilities. In contrast, the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA), is a funding statute enforced by the Office of Special Education and Rehabilitative Services (OSERS) and applies only to the special education of students with disabilities (classified students).

In order to be designated as eligible for accommodations/modifications under Section 504, a student must meet the following two criteria:

    1. Have a documented disability
    2. This disability must substantially limit a major life function.

Students determined to be eligible for accommodation under Section 504 represent a broad range of intellectual abilities and, as such, may be otherwise qualified to participate in courses spanning the full spectrum of academic levels. However, implementation of appropriate accommodations under Section 504, while intended to "level the playing field", does not guarantee that a student will achieve higher grades.

Policies and Procedures

A student may be referred by him/herself, a parent, or any member of the school staff. The following steps shall be followed when a student has been referred by self and/or parent to the committee as possibly being eligible for 504 designation under the provisions of the Rehabilitation Act of 1973:

  1. Upon receipt of a request from a parent/student, the request will be forwarded immediately to: Mrs. Barbara Gemza, the Glen Ridge School District 504 Coordinator.
  2. The 504 Coordinator will respond to the request in writing within ten (10) working days providing the parent with an overview of the process, a copy of Parent and Student Rights under Section 504, and the formal Section 504 Identification Request Form.
  3. When the formal, signed request has bee